Any number of things might run through your mind during sex—and hopefully all of them are a version of "this is amazing. But every now and then—in addition to random thoughts, like "did I remember to turn the oven off? Mood killer, amiright? Alyssa Dweck , M. Chief among them? You had to pee before sex and didn't realize it until you were already getting hot and heavy. Dweck says that pressure on the bladder—whether it's from thrusting or because you decided to try a more creative sex position —can make you realize you need to pee. Vaginal dryness, as well as sensitivity to a lubricant or condom, might also cause irritation and swelling around the urethra, and subsequently lead to the urge to pee, says Dweck.

Do I actually have to pee or am I about to orgasm?
Make sure you pee before AND after sex
If you have a vagina, you've probably heard that peeing after sex is crucial—especially if you want to avoid a urinary tract infection UTI. The last thing you want to feel after sex is the burning rage of a UTI, right? But that doesn't mean you need to jump out of bed to hit the restroom the second you both finish. Peeing after sex is important, sure, but you might have more wiggle room with the timing than you think. Keep reading to learn why you should pee after sex, plus how to know when you really need to go. What is a UTI exactly? A UTI is when any part of your urinary tract gets infected, though most infections occur in your bladder and urethra, according to the Mayo Clinic. A UTI happens when bacteria travel up the urethra and multiply. From there, they may even enter the bladder or your kidneys, particularly if the infection goes untreated.
Vaginal dryness and needing to pee
It is possible for women to urinate during sex. During sex, pressure can be put on the bladder by the penis, fingers, or another object. As a result, prodding the bladder in some way during sex is a relatively common occurrence. There is also some debate about whether female ejaculation is urine or another sort of fluid. Female ejaculation does not happen to all women, but some experience fluid coming from the urethra during orgasm. Columbia University have described this fluid as not being urine or vaginal fluid. However, a different study claims that this fluid is the uncontrolled release of urine. In this article, we examine the causes of urination during sex. We also take a look at treatment and management options, along with how to prevent urination from occurring at this time. The main reason for women urinating during sex is because of incontinence.
The Ohio State University. Is she trying to get pregnant? The urethra, which is the tube that connects the bladder to the outside of the body, is right next to the vaginal opening. Bacteria from the gastrointestinal tract can sometimes colonize the vagina, and during sex this bacteria can work its way up the urethra and infect the bladder or kidneys. Of course, the best way to know if your girlfriend is trying to get pregnant is to ask her. I had sex with my boyfriend and I peed after but he thinks he came in me? But if you are having unprotected sex withouth condoms or pills you have a really high risk of getting pregnant. Another important thing is that there are two different canals in your vagina, one from where the pee comes out and another one that your male partner can penetrate which is the same one that gets your period going. My advice is that you get tested.