When looking back on your sexual history, there's probably one or two experiences or partners that stick out among the rest in your memory. Maybe it was your first time ever, your most recent tryst, or that one-night stand you can't forget. Either way, it can be really satisfying to reminisce about an uplifting intimate experience that was particularly memorable. Thinking back on those experiences is not only fun, but it can also be interesting to notice what's had a hand in shaping your current sexual identity and preferences. Hearing women reveal their most unforgettably good sexual experience makes it hard not to feel real warm and fuzzy. It's normal for it to take most folks at least a little trial and error to figure out exactly what turns them on in the bedroom — but once you do, getting it right can feel so epic. TBH, reliving the best sex you've ever had can make the tingles come on strong.
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No matter our level of sexual experience, most of us have at least one sexual memory that sticks out above the rest in our minds, one that we remember as our absolute favorite. Our society puts a lot of emphasis on being perfect, especially when it comes to sex — but as you'll see below, our fondest sexual memories aren't usually about an encounter that was technically perfect. Rather, we cling to the memories of sex that was especially loving, fun, memorable or exciting in the moment no matter what may have happened later on in the story. There are some messages out there that claim that when we find a partner , we need to forget all our past sexual memories , and pretend that any adventures that we had before we met them didn't happen. But that's not true — our sexual memories are ours forever, and just because they may not feature our partner, it doesn't mean that we love our partner any less. We should celebrate our sexual memories because they're part of the whole of our sexuality — which includes who we were in the past, as well as who we'll be in the future. In honor of this, Bustle asked 10 readers to share their favorite sexual memories. Because admit it — you've probably got one, too.
For many people, it does not turn out exactly as planned. If your first time was not how you imagined it or if you are nervous about it happening, we want to ensure you that you are not alone! Although having sex for the first time is a big milestone in your life, we want to urge you not to stress about it being perfect or feel pressured to do it.