After my last blog post, The Myth of the Tight Pussy, I received a flood of responses from all kinds of people. Thanks to everyone who wrote in! However, I did get a couple messages that were an abrupt record scratch at my pussy party. They were a tiny minority, but the voices were loud enough to interrupt the electric slide and get my attention. They all said something like this:. Having been recently liberated from the specter of the stretched-out-sloppy-snatch, I was hesitant to replace one insecurity for another. But like any intrepid blogger would do, I pressed them for descriptions.
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Different Isn't Ugly
Like, what else precisely were you looking to have it do? My boyfriend gave me a…. Yes, one. He later told me my labia weirded him out. He told me my vagina was the ugliest he had ever seen. I being a 16 year old girl at the time just cried my eyes out and kept that comment with me until I met my wonderful husband. Yes, he told me my genitals were weird, too big and too dark. I was 16 and met him online in a chat room where I used to spend a LOT of time.
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It can help with body image anxiety. Now, her latest work puts vulvas and vaginas in the spotlight thanks to her new book Womanhood: The Bare Reality and forthcoming Channel 4 documentary: Vaginas. And when women share intimate photos and deeply personal experiences relating to their vaginas, the result is a tender yet taboo-exploding message of women reclaiming their womanhood. I think a part of me was shying away from that intimacy because I would have to address my own related experiences. The correct language and understanding of female genitalia is so important to me: the vulva is the whole external package, the vagina is a muscular tube which leads from the cervix the neck of the womb down to the vulva. Later, a BBC report about girls as young as nine seeking labiaplasty — surgery that involves the lips of the vagina being shortened or reshaped — because they were distressed by its appearance, had Laura reaching for her camera again.
Have you ever grabbed a mirror, opened your legs and spent a few minutes or maybe even hours examining your vagina while wondering, "Does this look normal? For some women, it's the length or thickness of their labia minoras that they're unsure about; for others, especially women of colour, there's this notion of the vulva being "too dark" or "discoloured," on top of a plethora of other concerns. And while we could spend all day dissecting the insecurities women face when it comes to their lady bits, it's important to understand where the benchmark for the "perfect vagina" came from — however, the answer can vary. Note: The names of the two women have been changed for privacy. I even went as far as to look up surgeries like labiaplasty, thinking that would make my vagina beautiful. For Kate, on the other hand, her sense of doubt came from external factors, and stemmed from lack of visibility.